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We've been dating 7 months now I'm the happiest I've ever been, and you may gsp it hard to believe but, im in love. My parents have issues, I guess they just don't want their little girl dating an older man, but I Dating someone with a large age gap give him up. I still talk to my afe and I really hope they come around. I think we were both surprised by the amount of support we got from members of his church. But then again he's been a member there for 3 years or more and several of them prayed that he would find someone. And when he did, i guess they didn't care what kind of girl she was, so long as she would take care of him.
My friends on the other hand are still I love him, and I've come to realize that it doesn't matter what the people around us think, we love each other. We pretty much do everything together.
Yes we have our arguements, but who doesn't? Nothing will tear us apart. I was in a relationship for 4 years with a year age gap with the person who is still my best friend. In we'll have known each other 10 years, and I have found that as I have got older the age difference has become less of an issue to the "public". We have never had a problem with it ourselves but in the past have got some negative comments from others. Also, as I have got older people's comments don't matter any more as long as we are happy. We split up due to living in different countries but are still best friends who talk every day and frequently met up. I don't know how it works but it does - we are intellectual equals with similar interests, who just happen to be different ages, and just like in any other relationship, you just see the person, not the age.
I have been with men Dating someone with a large age gap varying different ages over the years. Personally, I think once two people are over a certain age, it shouldn't matter as long as they want the same things out of life. I am over 30 so am in settled mode but I feel if I was 20 wanting to party all the time and going out with somebody whho was 11 years older then who wanted a settled life, that things may be different. Happy at the moment. Who knows what obstacles it might throw up in years to come and I have thought about most of them - old age complication, children, etc.
Possibly because he is not Irish,notsure. I however am quite paranoid about the whole thing even though I look younger thanmy age. We started Fuck local sluts in pledwick out when i was 19 and at first it was a lot of fun for me, he treated me with the respect i never got off men my age. Also he wasnt as sex obsessed as men my age although theres was always a strain put on our relationship. I am outgoing and love going to nightclubs and he hated the thought of me getting chatted up in clubs because he wouldnt go to the clubs himself and sometimes it would get embarrassing for example at my 21st when i had to tell people my boyfriend was 30!!
I have always dated men who were younger than me. Men who were older or the same age didn't seem interested in me romanticaly. Does that seem odd? My husband and I have a great time and Ihave to say that he is my best friend. He isn't brothered if I'm getting wrinkles of 'spreading' around the middle. As he says himself he fell in love with my personality not my body. I also think that its the person and their personality. There are so many different people in the world today and some people complement each other in different ways. Weather the person is older, younger, male or female relationships need some work and if a person isn't willing to put in some effort than it doesn't matter what age they are.
Previous boyfriends have been either 4 or 5 years older too, they are long gone. After many years off the dating scene, I have now met a man 13 years older than me. I have never been happier, I just wish I had met him sooner. So I say to all of you ladies out there if you are contemplating an older man, go for it. I personally would'nt be interested in a man younger than me, probably have to spend too much on the anti-wrinkle cream trying to keep up appearances! As for the 4 years 'recommended' well thats a joke, its not the years, its the person. My aunt was married to a man 20 years her senior and he doted on her.
She would be he first to say she never had an unhappy day in her married life. My Cousin has married a woman 18 years his junior and they are expecting their first baby. Then there are couples of similar age in relationships where it doesn't work out. Both proposed but I turned them down for other reasons besides age. I am currently dating a guy 7 years younger. I think sexually its more compatible. It definitely depends on the guy. Kind, mature and understanding guys fit the bill. I think its kinda a culture thing too. I don't think a young Dublin guy would be interested in a serious relationship of this kind but other cultures or even outside of Dublin - different ages intermingle more.
Any views on my comments? Yet my previous boyfriend was 24 when I was 30 and of course that didn't work - great at the start as there was loads of fun and frolics but as time passes and the initial flushes of romance wears off, problems due to the age difference started - he wanted and was more able to go out more often than me, he wanted to travel more whereas I had done all that, he was stressing that I should be thinking about settling down etc and he couldn't offer that so the pressures of the age difference split us up in the end. My new boyfriend is a mature 28yr old and if anything, I'm the younger person in the relationship, yet he does bring the youthful fun to it too.
My sister and her husband have 13 years between them 30 and 43 and they are very happy together. It's all down to personalities, chemistry, working together at your relationship in a positive way, having the same goals in life, etc etc. It really annoys me when this is "recommended" and that is "recommended". Seems to me a lot of relationships that are in that 4-year "rule" don't work anyway Every relationship has it's own unique pressures, no matter what age you are. He is 30 years younger than I am.
Dating with a large age difference: Should you give it a go?
Lafge used to get embarrassed when we went out together, people sometimes asked if he was my sith Now I don't care any more. I would osmeone feel that he has a younger outlook on life than me. We get along great, I was previously in a relationship to a guy who was my age ggap it didn't work at all. I would say it depends on the people. If they're both at the same stage i. I know I'm happy. My husband is 12years older than me. There Daring a huge difference in us things Dating someone with a large age gap been bad for years and we could not see eye to eye, then he got very afe and I have noticed that things have inproved a lot since that it sad to have to say that that this had to happen largge i to xge a change.
Agp was in a relationship with a guy who was twelve years younger than I was. I am 34 and he was He lied at first and told me he was older and then eventually came clean. I have been married and at a very young age and later divorced. I have 4 children who are all adults. Were my adult daughters bothered that I had girlfriends close to their age? Not at all, because they know that I am not an old geezer with bladder control issues. People in my family live to be years old quite often. I will bet that I can out cycle and out run you by miles. And without question, the biggest Jerks were those younger guys who felt they were universally powerful and immortal, lacking compassion and respect.
Another thing is culture and intelligence. When I was young I had friends who were much older than me, because I quickly outgrew peers my own age. Being highly intelligent and knowledgeable at a young age makes you seem rather nerdy to people who are average. So in High school I hung out with people who were working on graduate degrees or doing post-graduate work or older. After being married and then single again, I find that highly intelligent and attractive young women tend to feel the same way… guys their age are like children or dogs humping their leg. What does she have to excite a man? But that does only go so far, and only lasts so long.
A sustained thriving marriage depends on that. Some people take care of their body, their mind and have great genetics, so stereotyping serves no purpose. Finally, I can see how the 8 year average [age difference in a marriage] makes sense for average people.